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fear of judgement
you do not have a fear of judgement, at least it isn’t exactly that. when you say you have a fear of…
dumping vs a place of power
this has been spoken alot lately in a container i am in. but also something clients and frien…
i’m not that coach
let’s be honest and drop that bullshit about: “i am doing ______ only because i want to change the …
let’s focus on what we can bring to the table and drop the small stuff!
i used to be very bothered with how i always have typos and jumbled words but i realised many actual…
on “self sabotaging” (and why i dont subscribe to it)
for the ‘words people’, here’s the gist: years ago, i subscribed to the idea of self sabotaging. as …
you can heal without reconciling with the person who caused you hurt.
if you are more of a word person, here’s the gist. many healers, teachers, coaches, therapists, etc …
fear based decisions
“We don't rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training.” –…
how trauma shows up in daily life.
sometimes, it is not in the the behaviors. it’s in the emotions – which may not be seen. many …
rising in love
FB reminded me that 6 years ago, i wrote this. and 8 months after i wrote this, i met H. then…
stubborn vs persistent
stubborn adjective the word to use on someone who is firm on an opinion or action (that is different…