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how to be authentic without being an impulsive, immature or an asshole.
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Validating and holding space for someone is a lot more of actions and being than words. Many I spoke…
pursuit of jade
many dramas are captivating because they allow people to watch the fantasy and desire they have or t…
reflection triggered by heihei’s ivdd
some of you might have heard it from me privately, some had some clue when i sent out the tel…
Functioning survival mode
We are familiar with fight, flight, freeze or fawn as a survival response from acute stress and situ…
procrastination is you honouring your energy
i previously wrote about this here but figured it can do with more info. to be clear, i am speaking …
learning and reflection – jan 2026
it took me 10 years to realised i have been doing it “wrong” when it comes to building my body of (a…
seek transparency and partnership instead of (just honesty)
“honesty” is one of the common values that people look for in intimate relationships, me included. b…
Why AI is motivating me to write and show up more
I’ve always enjoyed writing but am also very conscious and cautious because I feel that I hav…
oct is physical upgrade – life patterns and cycle
for many year, i have physical “issue” in Oct. 2017: i had my first hives breakout in 30 years. 2018…