medicine for anxiety
Perspective // Tools instead of trying to tell yourself these: “don’t think about it” “there’s nothing you can do about it” (these are a few of the worst things to say to someone experiencing anxiety…
on luck
ive been exploring the concept of “luck” since start of the year and recently also had a few conversations around it. some of you know that i applied for a house and my queue…
working with ancestors in the kitchen
ive always cook without recipes. (unless it’s very specific dish and taste, and even so, i dont follow the measurements very closely) as i was cooking today, i had a realisation. many people (me included)…
emotions solves nothing
“i don’t see why we need to spend time to talk about emotions cos it doesn’t solve or change anything” this sentence (or variations of it) is nothing new. many people go by this and…
emotions are completely logical
another lie that we have been told often about emotions is that “emotions are not logical”. but, emotions are logical. (at least for most adults) i asked chatgpt to define “logic”. now explain to me…
how we infer what someone is saying, is based on how our world is.
what is the size of a tub of kimchi in your world? how we infer what someone is saying, is based on how our world is. three weeks ago, my friend shared she bought extra…
if you don’t want to make mistakes, do less.
if you don’t want to make mistakes, do less. or don’t do. if you want to learn and grow, do more. or make more mistakes. the irony. 🤓
contradiction
them: “im different” also them: oh. but no one has done it before. people want to believe they are unique individuals. but they also want step by step guides of how other’s have done it…
stop beating yourself up for procrastinating
so many people are beating themselves up because they procrastinate. seriously. stop that shit. if you love that adrenaline rush, feeling alive with hot flashes, heart pumping.. if you are more productive. your brain works…
do you remember those times you spent reading a friend’s blog?
i remember being behind my computer reading blogs after blogs. i don’t even need to be super close to the person, but i enjoy reading his/her blog, learning more about him/her and what’s happening. there…